Cheaters never win.

Why do people cheat? I know there are a variety of opinions on this topic. For some cheating is absolutely without a doubt wrong and they'd never even think about doing it. For others it's just apart of life because people are sexual beings and we're not meant to have sex with just one person forever. I sort of fall in the middle of these two theories. I'll admit I've cheated in past relationships and also in my current relationship. It's not because I'm unhappy or anything like that, I just like to experience new people... new sex. I believe everyone has there own sexual energy and when two people's energies mix, you get a variety of outcomes. Sometimes your sexual energy just doesn't mix with someone else's. Even though they may be physically attractive to you, the sexual element just doesn't feel right. Those are what I call a major let down. You got this fine ass dude naked in your bed and when it's all said and done, instead of explosions and fireworks, you get a sparkler. Now on the other hand, you have those people (like my ex) where the sexual chemistry is so strong that you want to rip their clothes off every time you see them. Those are the ones I really enjoy. Those are the people that make me a cheater. Their sexual energy mixes with mine so well that it's almost like a drug. Now, for me, when I do step outside my relationship it's only about sex. My boyfriend and I have good sex. I'd rate our sexual energies a 7 or an 8. So sometimes I go looking for a sexual 10. Side note... I get so much mentally, emotionally, and spiritually from my boyfriend that I'm so happy with him. I'd never think of ruining what we have. That's why anyone I sleep with knows that it's just sex, that's it! So to answer the question, why do people cheat? For me, the answer is variety. I really like Frosted Flakes, it gives me everything I need and so much more. But sometimes, I want to try Fruit Loops or Cheerios. What do you think? Let me know.