Thursday, August 30, 2007
Double Standard
Why do people accept that guys are promiscuous? I hate to hear people use the excuse that "men will be men". I dont think having a dick gives you the right to be, for the lack of a better word, a hoe. One of my homegirls will sleep with her boyfriend ever time he wants to, even when she doesnt and it hurts. She says its cause he's a man and if he cant get it from her, he will go and get it from someone else. Side note, I hate him! I really wish she wasnt so stupid over him. Wise up and realize that she can do way better. Back to the topic, i just dont get it at all. Why do people make excuses for guy? Like our penises have minds of their own and we just cant control. A man just cant be horny and nothin about it cause we are men. We have needs that have to be fulfilled and whatever we do is ok. Ive never been into casual sex, i like to have a connection with the person. So if im not dating anyone, i dont have sex. I also dont like to "pleasure myself". If your like everyone else, your thinking "WHAT???"........LOL. Guys always think im either lying or crazy. Then they use the excuse "You have to do something, you are a man afterall." Why is it so hard to believe that a man can control his hormones. I dont have to go lookin for it just cause i have a hard-on.
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Well! I certainly stirred a hornet's nest with this one. For those who do not know, I'm kinda the straw that broke the camel's back on this one so it is necessary that I reply.
Not everyone is as strong as you. Most people use sex as a means of achieving an emotional connection despite the relationship outside of the physical. At the core of most people is a need to be accepted and one thing that ensures accepts, if even for 3 minutes, is sex. So when guys get horny they are really saying that they need to make a connection, maybe release some tension. I don't know where I'm going with all this but I know that I want YOU to be happy and find whatever makes YOU happy. I also want you to understand that we are not all wired alike and on this topic you are in the vast minority. It would be great to control sexual urges but I just can't, I'm a man! ;-)
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